Showing posts with label grief. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grief. Show all posts

Monday, October 15, 2018

You may or may not know that you outed yourself. Was it worth it?


There is at least one person very close to you who has been sexually assaulted. 

This person agonized over the decision to report the assailant knowing that if they do, they will be disbelieved and possibly ridiculed.  They know that even if they endure all of that, they will probably watch their assailant go free or get little more than a slap on the wrist. 

This person saw your posts disparaging the #MeToo movement as a “progressive smear campaign orchestrated by losers on the left who are frustrated over the results of the last election” or something to that effect. 

Monday, November 22, 2010

Why'd ya have to go and.............(insert source of grief here)??????!!!!!!!!!!!!

I've wanted to post about this ever since I first heard 'Let It Die' but life always got in the way. Also, I thought it best to let the debate go on for a little while about whether Dave Grohl is confronting his emotions about the tragic death of his Nirvana bandmate.


So now, I am finally here to put the issue to bed. Yes, the song is about Kurt Cobain. Yeah I know he said it isn't, but why should we listen the artist who actually wrote the song? Especially when he has also said things like this. All one has to do is read the lyrics and listen to the melancholly tone which abruptly becomes emotionally flooded with rage and it all makes perfect sense that this song is the product of a man coming to grips with the death of a friend at his own hands, right?




Or...................maybe the song is about US Olympic Skiing Champion Bill Johnson. A simple man with a blushing bride, but all preceding tragedy and failure. Right again! The song is in fact a tribute to Bill Johnson! I have no idea, btw, if Dave Grohl has a clue who Bill Johnson is. But it doesn't matter. If it works, it works. And the song is both ambiguous and emotionally authentic enough to be the song about whatever is a source of intense grief for the listener.

So if listening to it helps one come to grips with their grief about the loss of Kurt Cobain than that is what it is; and it is also many other things, all of them related to healing from intense grief.....and it is perfect.