Monday, October 15, 2018

You may or may not know that you outed yourself. Was it worth it?


There is at least one person very close to you who has been sexually assaulted. 

This person agonized over the decision to report the assailant knowing that if they do, they will be disbelieved and possibly ridiculed.  They know that even if they endure all of that, they will probably watch their assailant go free or get little more than a slap on the wrist. 

This person saw your posts disparaging the #MeToo movement as a “progressive smear campaign orchestrated by losers on the left who are frustrated over the results of the last election” or something to that effect. 

They may agree with you on more things than they disagree, however; now……This person knows that you, as their family member or close friend, or loved one; are one of the people who will disbelieve and ridicule them.  He or she now knows that you value political wins for your team of strangers (tens/hundreds/thousands of miles away) in Washington more than you value your relationship with him or her. 

You know this person very well.  You have no idea who they might be, but they know who you are.

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